How to Attract Love - 17 Herbs, Flowers, and Crystals for Attraction


If you feel like intervening magically in your love life, there are many ingredients from nature to include in your love spells. Whether you want to attract a new casual lover or your forever partner, or if you need to get over an ex or patch things up with a current partner, we can assure you there’s an herb, flower, or crystal for that. Remember to check on the toxicity of flowers regarding your pets before bringing them into your home. If you want to use a flower but it’s toxic to your pet, a printed picture will do, as it will have the same energetic vibration. 

 cinnamon used for attraction

1. Cinnamon

Cinnamon can make you magnetic to the attention of your preferred gender(s). It makes you more confident to explore your sexuality alone or with a partner. It also makes you irresistible to certain people. Depending on the use you want to give it, you can use it powdered or in sticks. Simply including cinnamon in your latte while focusing on your intention can be a quick love spell that will have nice results.

2. Rose Quartz

You probably already know that this crystal has to do with love. Contrary to popular belief, giving someone Rose Quartz won’t make them fall for you. Rose Quartz makes you fall in love with yourself. Self-esteem plays a key role when it comes to attracting the right partner and being able to advocate for yourself and stick to your boundaries. This stone also creates a harmonious environment when you interact with that special someone, and promotes a peaceful relationship with very few fights.  

beet root used for attraction

3. Beetroot powder

This is a great ingredient for a love potion. Its deep red color promotes passion and long term love. We can have another article about the power of red color magic if you’re curious. Beet root powder is also used as a natural way to color food and drink and you should definitely include it in any Kitchen Witchery regarding love you may be planning to do.  

4. Catnip

Catnip will attract a person that just can’t get enough of you. It’s often combined with rose petals in sachets and carried around so this person can appear in your life. It’ll also make you more pleasant to others and well-liked in general. Carry a small amount with you on first dates and to parties or other places where you’re likely to meet someone special.

Morganite used for attraction

5. Morganite

Morganite is a step up from Rose Quartz and will guide you towards Divine Love, which doesn’t have any space for the ego and is all about surrender and acceptance of the other exactly as they are. If you choose to use it, you may have to do some healing and shadow work first, but it will all later pay off when it helps you connect with your soulmate.  

6. Chamomile Flower

If you intend to repair a relationship, this ingredient can’t be missing from your love spell. It will soothe any tension that’s present in the relationship and promote the constructive rebuilding of it.  

Pink Tourmaline used for attraction

7. Pink Tourmaline

This stone can make you receptive to the right relationship. It will promote being in the right place at the right time when it comes to love. It will also teach you about being worthy of receiving in a romantic relationship, something a lot of us struggle with.  

8. Damiana

Damiana is especially effective when attracting a compatible lover or to include in a love spell to attract a long-term partner who you also can’t get your hands off of. If you’re happily coupled up and none of you is allergic, you can keep some in the bedroom as an aphrodisiac.  

ginger used for attraction

9. Ginger

Ginger is all about attracting adventure and exploring your sensuality. It is the preferred ingredient for love spells that are about attracting a casual fling. It will also help you grow on your own self-confidence. Ginger makes matters move fast, so if you need a lover now, it’s definitely an ingredient to consider.  

10. Hibiscus

If you feel like you need Divine guidance regarding a potential match, drink some hibiscus tea before bed and you’ll have a psychic dream that’ll tell you all you need to know. If there’s no one on the horizon, it will help you dream of your future partner. You can also keep it around or drink hibiscus tea before doing a Tarot reading regarding love matters, or other forms of Divination.  

Hyacinth used for attraction

11. Hyacinth

Hyacinth is said to protect gay men and masc lesbians, as well as masculine gender nonconforming people. While you make your rounds in the dating apps, keep yourself protected by carrying it in your pockets. 

12. Lemon Verbena

Lemon Verbena will make you more attractive, especially in combination with cinnamon. It can also help you be more self-confident and work on what you think you deserve in a romantic relationship.  

Moonstone used for attraction

13. Moonstone

Intuition and receptiveness are both key when it comes to attracting the right partner and making the right moves. Moonstone can help you with just that. You can also program it to help you attract the perfect femme presenting partner, if that’s what you desire. 

14. Rose buds

Rose buds can be used to protect and promote stability in an established relationship. It’s great for attracting Divine Love and a long-lasting partner. Keep some in your bedroom to protect your current relationship. If you’re sick of casual flings that go nowhere, make sure to include this ingredient in your next love spell. 

Vanilla Beans used for attraction

15. Vanilla beans

Just like their irresistible smell, vanilla beans are all about attracting someone who feels a lot of lust (and love, of course) for you. A ginger and vanilla bean concoction can hook you up with some fun in the bedroom, whereas, combined with rose bud, it can help you attract a solid partner that’s also incredibly sexually compatible with you. 

16. Witch Hazel Leaf

The ultimate herb to get over your ex. It will lovingly guide you through your grief until you finally accept that this person is no longer in your life. Include it in sachets with calming, soothing crystals like Moss Agate, Blue Lace Agate or Green Aventurine. It will give you the loving support you need until you can get back on your feet. As long as you’re sure the receiver is not allergic, you can also give it as a gift for a friend who has just been dumped. 

Green Aventurine used for attraction

17. Green Aventurine

Green Aventurine will help you heal from a breakup or hurt feelings directed at your current partner. It will also gently guide you through the road of forgiveness and teach you what you’re worth. 

In short, the natural world offers a lot of solutions to integrate in your love spells and witchcraft practice to attract all sorts of romantic relationships, mend your current ones, or get over a breakup. 

Remember not to use any of these to attract a specific person unless you really know what you’re doing. That’s Baneful Magick and it can go horribly wrong. However, to attract a non-specific casual lover or long-term partner, they work just fine and are safe for beginner witches to use. 

Have you ever tried to cast a love spell? What did you include in it?

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