Signs Hecate is Reaching Out


signs hecate is reaching out

Are you looking into working with a deity? Do you feel particularly drawn to Hecate's figure? If you are approaching a big breakthrough, she might be calling you.

Get to know Hecate

Hecate is one of the lesser-known Greek goddesses. The abilities attributed to her in Greek mythology are many, and they are mysterious. That is why, even nowadays, some myths around her present her as an evil goddess. Certainly, some of her powers and characteristics can be associated with the Underworld. However, some of her domains undoubtedly belong to the realm of life. She has extensive powers and many divine duties. She is considered to be the goddess of the night, light, childbirth, ghosts, necromancy, and the moon. Today, we know her mainly for being the goddess of magic and witchcraft.

According to mythology, her divine duties include ushering souls from the physical world to the underworld and vice-versa. She is, therefore, a liminal goddess. As such, she was given the title of goddess of gateways and borders. In this aspect, those “in-between” spaces are under her domain. She is also called the goddess of crossroads. To represent this, she is frequently represented as a triple goddess. For example, she is most commonly seen as a triple feminine figure, or as a woman holding a three-headed dog.

Hecate’s calling

Hecate is known to call people even when, more often than not, some witches are afraid of working with her. she may call you despite you knowing very little about her -or even if you do not know her at all. This goddess tends to be persistent and does not care about the resistance or inexperience of those she wants to call.

As we know, Hecate’s domains include crossroads. Not unexpectedly, she often calls people who are going through major life changes. This is why she is believed to call pregnant and dying people predominantly. She also likes calling young witches, as she likes to teach her craft using old-school methods. This is, of course, not true for everyone. You might be invited to work with her at any age.

young witch for hecate

However, if you are standing at any kind of turning point, she might lend a hand to help you. It might come across as an inconvenient time to embark on something new. But she will empower you to burn bridges leading back to those things that no longer serve you.

This is a deep, internal process. When something inside you starts breaking, her power seeps through the cracks and starts lighting up your soul. But Hecate is loud about what she wants. The work might be inward, but she will not leave room for doubt. If she wants to call you, you will notice subtle, yet unmistakable signs from her. You just have to pay attention. 

6 signs Hecate is trying to get your attention

  1. Black dogs

Dogs are sacred to Hecate. They are her animal companion and she is frequently depicted with one. Repeatedly coming across large, black dogs can be a signal from her. However, this sign can manifest in different ways. For example, you might hear dogs howling or barking a bit too frequently. If these sounds seem to come out of nowhere, they might be her hounds calling you.

black dog for hecate

  1. Keys

Hecate is the goddess of gateways, and keys are one of her symbols. Of course, we handle keys on a daily basis. But if you unexpectedly come across keys while running errands, or find a long-lost bunch of keys, it might be a sign.

  1. Torches

In most representations, Hecate is holding torches. This is related to her soul-guiding and gate-keeping duties. Unlike keys, torches are not frequently seen in our daily life, so spotting one without actively seeking it could be a sign.

black dog for hecate

  1. The number 3

Hecate is often represented as a triple female figure. This is the representation of crossroads, one of her domains. In Greek mythology, she is also connected to the three realms of the Cosmos: earth, sea, and sky. Therefore, 3 is a sacred number when it comes to Hecate. If you notice it around you often, take note. It could be a message from this goddess.

  1. Crossroads

Hecate will likely call you when you are standing at a crossroads. But not only metaphorically! If you have a strange experience while standing at a crossroads, especially in a forest, pay attention. A symbol, a vision, a channeled message… that could be her calling.

black dog for hecate

  1. Symbols

Sometimes, the calling is even more obvious. If straightforward symbols, like Hecate’s wheel or triple moon imagery, appear around you repeatedly, she might be trying to call you.

What to do when you are called by Hecate

Receiving these signs from Hecate herself might be overwhelming. Maybe you sense that she’s trying to get through, but you are not completely sure. That is normal, especially if you have never worked with deities before.

At this point, being open to signs is more effective than actively looking for them. If you suspect that Hecate wants to work with you, taking notes might be useful. Keeping a detailed log of these signs will make them tangible and can help you understand them better. Write down if they are present in dreams or real life. Mention every symbol you notice. If you have a vision, jot down any other elements present. If you are undergoing any kind of change in your life, explain that, too.

Of course, it is difficult to discern what is really a sign. However, this is when faith comes into play. Remember that Hecate works from the inside out. If you have an unexplainable gut feeling, you are most probably correct. Trust her guidance and she will show you the right direction.

First steps working with Hecate

If you are ready to start working with Hecate, you can start small and work up progressively. Here are some ideas to start your journey.

  1. Include her in your altar

Having her picture on your altar or lighting a candle for her is a good place to start. You can add elements as your confidence grows.

  1. Work with Moon cycles

You can start by cleaning your home during a Full Moon as a cleansing ritual. Make sure to intention your actions.

moon phases for hecate

  1. Help animals

Hecate is deeply related to Nature and animals in general. Even when she is mostly seen around dogs, other animals like snakes and polecats (similar to ferrets) are also included among her symbols. Working in your local shelter or with strays is a nice way to connect with her.

  1. Take care of your plants

This is a rather easy way to start understanding Hecate’s work. She is an herbalist and honors medicinal herbs and plants in her craft. Learning to work with these elements can take long study sessions. However, bonding with your houseplants is an easy starting point.

plants for hecate

  1. Do shadow work

Hecate is the connection between light and darkness. She walks in life, death, and anything in between. Working with your shadow will spark a close connection between you and this wise, mysterious goddess.

  1. Practice green witchcraft

Devote time to including herbs and elements from Nature in your practice. Not only will you feel closer to Hecate. You will also learn a new craft.

plants for hecate

 

Have you received Hecate’s calling? What were your signs? Share your experience with the community in the comments!


51 comments


  • Donna

    I dyed my hair black for the first time last winter, blonde for the summer (looked nice but I felt more comfortable with it black and changed it back to black a few weeks ago. Very recently, I ordered clothing online and am drawn to black and purple. Purple was never a color I wore. My fingernails are painted black. I am in a crossroad, since April of this year, and it is emotionally painful. A few days ago, I downloaded a Shadow Work guide. I was tired so I stopped reading just as I was learning about working with deities and a few were named. A short time later, I heard a female voice say “Hecate” and nothing more. I just did some reading about her and realized the signs are all here, while I’m awake as I don’t remember my dreams. I checked the time before I began this comment, it was 3:05. I pay attention to numbers and the number 3 has been all around me for months now. I moved into a pet friendly apartment complex a couple of weeks ago, when I’m outside and people walk by with their dogs, they all come right over to me, mostly the black or dark grey. My right ear has been ringing loudly for months on and off. I’ve begun searching proper alter gifts for Hecate and will get started on that alter soon. I’m looking forward to working with her.


  • Donna

    I dyed my hair black for the first time last winter, blonde for the summer (looked nice but I felt more comfortable with it black and changed it back to black a few weeks ago. Very recently, I ordered clothing online and am drawn to black and purple. Purple was never a color I wore. My fingernails are painted black. I am in a crossroad, since April of this year, and it is emotionally painful. A few days ago, I downloaded a Shadow Work guide. I was tired so I stopped reading just as I was learning about working with deities and a few were named. A short time later, I heard a female voice say “Hecate” and nothing more. I just did some reading about her and realized the signs are all here, while I’m awake as I don’t remember my dreams. I checked the time before I began this comment, it was 3:05. I pay attention to numbers and the number 3 has been all around me for months now. I moved into a pet friendly apartment complex a couple of weeks ago, when I’m outside and people walk by with their dogs, they all come right over to me, mostly the black or dark grey. My right ear has been ringing loudly for months on and off. I’ve begun searching proper alter gifts for Hecate and will get started on that alter soon. I’m looking forward to working with her.


  • Callum McMullen

    In 2016 I stared at the waxing moon for a full week. Turned 28 on September 12th 2016 the day after on the 13th whilst staring at the moon She said her name. It went straight through me. Never had I heared of Her before

    The day after 13 pops out of computer screen (my ex had apparently just googled 13 inch mac book), barking dog, lightening struck our neighbourhood: the entire building shook.

    The days after: Dream 1: I died and had a rebirth. Dream 2: I stood straight in front of the full moon, and I felt her staring back.

    Then followed a series of underworld dreams and I met my mother in the final one: the root of all my trauma.

    In 2020 I moved in to my own place: on no. 13, opposite the graveyard, on the border of Holland and Belgium. And as icing on the cake I recieved the keys to my flat on November 16, The Night of Hekate.

    My current boyfriend, whom I didn’t have contact with over 12 years before getting together, had got Her tattoed in 2016.

    She is very in my face when it comes to it.

    Hail Hekate.


  • Troy

    Every sign says I’m called. But I honour her as the trinity of creation. My mother knew when I was 10. She said .” Make sure you help others.”


  • Brenda

    I’ve been attracted by the moon, all about it is fascinating and also about her


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